February 4, 2014
The notion of having to sell your
spouse and children in order to repay a debt is unthinkable. Jesus told this parable in Matthew 18:21-35
about a servant who owed his master millions of dollars, but could not pay it
back.
“The servant fell on his knees
before him (the master). ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back
everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let
him go.”
That would be such a nice story if
that were the way it ended. However, the
servant who had just received mercy went out and had someone else thrown in
prison who couldn’t repay a debt to him.
This seems outrageous. But isn’t this exactly how we behave sometimes? We all like to receive mercy, and we love it
when people are patient with us. But how
many of us embrace opportunities to show mercy and have patience towards
others? And if that doesn’t step on our
toes enough, how many of us are deficient at showing God the proper commitment,
even as we expect Him to stay committed to us, and show us great amounts of love
and patience and mercy?
I recently watched a YouTube video in
the “I Am Second” series. Duck Dynasty’s
Phil Robertson was reminiscing about when he caught some thieves red handed as
they were attempting to steal fish from Phil’s net. The incident took place just after Phil had
become a Christian and changed his lifestyle. So, instead of running the thieves
off with his shotgun, Phil told them they could have whatever was in the
net. From that point on, Phil said those
thieves stopped stealing fish all up and down the river. Phil said that God knew what would work all
along. Matthew 5:40 says, “And if anyone
wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well.”
Some people look at forgiving others
as a sign of weakness, especially if the one being forgiven gets away without
being punished. Please don’t get me
wrong, the Bible does not promote thievery, laziness, or the carrying on of
undisciplined lifestyles. After all, “If
anyone isn’t willing to work, he should not eat (2 Thes. 3:10).” But there are simply times that showing mercy
and patience teaches a better lesson than harsh punishment.
The apostle Paul urges us to “Not
repay anyone evil for evil (Romans 12:17).”
Forgiveness is proactive, gives
peace of mind, and makes you no longer the victim. Forgiveness takes the burden off your
shoulders and allows God to take vengeance as He sees fit in his own time. Have a great week!