by Barrett Vanlandingham
September 30, 2014
Nobody likes a bully. However, sometimes things that
start badly have good endings that might not have happened otherwise.
Just this year at a high school in Grand Prairie, Texas a group of mean kids tricked a special young lady named Lilly into thinking she had been nominated as homecoming queen. What a cruel prank! But two of the actual nominees made a pact that if either of them were to win, they would crown Lilly instead. That's exactly what happened. In fact, the principal said in all his years there he had never experienced anything greater. So, hats off (or crowns off) to queen Anahi Alvarez and runner-up Naomi Martinez for doing such a wonderful thing in combating bullies at their school.
Yes, kids can be mean. So can immature grown-ups. We've all seen it, and most of us have experienced it. It is difficult to control the actions of other people. However, we do have the ability to react in ways that will make a difference.
All through the Bible, we read stories about people who simply put were bullies. But when God intervened, somehow even the worst of circumstances ended with a positive outcome. Remember the Old Testament story of Joseph? His jealous brothers meant to harm him. But in doing so, Joseph was put in a position that in the end helped him become Governor of Egypt, and his good planning saved the much of the known world, including his jealous brothers, from starvation. What his brothers meant for harm, God meant for good.
How about the New Testament story of Paul? He no doubt thought he was doing the right thing when he participated in killing Christians before he was converted to Christianity. God gave Paul free will just as he gives us free will today. Unfortunately, Paul chose to be a bully of the worst kind. In the end, God used temporary blindness to help Paul see the error of his ways. He ended up writing half of the New Testament. He also turned out to be a much greater force for Christianity than he ever was a misguided zealot for his Jewish faith.
While God never closes the door on a repentant heart, He has a history of allowing people to suffer the consequences of their rebelliousness. Yes, sometimes innocent people suffer because of thoughtless people. But in the end, good always prevails, and if only for a short time so does unity. The bullies in Grand Prairie probably learned a great lesson that will impact their actions throughout their life. Let's all remember to pray for our enemies and those here and around the world whose hearts are void of compassion. Have a great week!
Just this year at a high school in Grand Prairie, Texas a group of mean kids tricked a special young lady named Lilly into thinking she had been nominated as homecoming queen. What a cruel prank! But two of the actual nominees made a pact that if either of them were to win, they would crown Lilly instead. That's exactly what happened. In fact, the principal said in all his years there he had never experienced anything greater. So, hats off (or crowns off) to queen Anahi Alvarez and runner-up Naomi Martinez for doing such a wonderful thing in combating bullies at their school.
Yes, kids can be mean. So can immature grown-ups. We've all seen it, and most of us have experienced it. It is difficult to control the actions of other people. However, we do have the ability to react in ways that will make a difference.
All through the Bible, we read stories about people who simply put were bullies. But when God intervened, somehow even the worst of circumstances ended with a positive outcome. Remember the Old Testament story of Joseph? His jealous brothers meant to harm him. But in doing so, Joseph was put in a position that in the end helped him become Governor of Egypt, and his good planning saved the much of the known world, including his jealous brothers, from starvation. What his brothers meant for harm, God meant for good.
How about the New Testament story of Paul? He no doubt thought he was doing the right thing when he participated in killing Christians before he was converted to Christianity. God gave Paul free will just as he gives us free will today. Unfortunately, Paul chose to be a bully of the worst kind. In the end, God used temporary blindness to help Paul see the error of his ways. He ended up writing half of the New Testament. He also turned out to be a much greater force for Christianity than he ever was a misguided zealot for his Jewish faith.
While God never closes the door on a repentant heart, He has a history of allowing people to suffer the consequences of their rebelliousness. Yes, sometimes innocent people suffer because of thoughtless people. But in the end, good always prevails, and if only for a short time so does unity. The bullies in Grand Prairie probably learned a great lesson that will impact their actions throughout their life. Let's all remember to pray for our enemies and those here and around the world whose hearts are void of compassion. Have a great week!