by
Barrett Vanlandingham
May 6,
2018
Proverbs 16:24 says, “Pleasant words
are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”
There is good reason God’s Word, the
Bible, speaks so much about the importance of the words we choose to use in our
conversations with others, or even when no one else is around. The words we use
really do make a difference in how other people feel, and how we feel about
ourselves and others.
Recently, my friend and coworker,
Steve Parker, told me about a conversation his wife, Charlotte, had with a
97-year old woman she met the other day. When the woman discovered that
Charlotte’s husband is one of the ministers at the Fort Gibson church of
Christ, she let Charlotte know she reads my column, every week, and even cuts
them out of her paper to save.
I just want to say “Thank you” to that
sweet 97-year old woman for passing along such encouraging words. It really did
make a difference in my day and in the days since.
My
wife, Lisa, is also an encourager. After hearing this story, she reminded me
that my columns are probably stuck on refrigerators everywhere! Thanks honey, no pressure (smile). I am just
seriously humbled that out of all of the things a 97-year old woman has seen
and heard, she regards my column as something worth saving. I will say it
again, I am truly humbled by this.
Words of encouragement always seem to
come along at just the right time, don’t they? Sometimes, we offer or receive encouraging
words face to face. Other times, we receive encouragement from someone who
spoke with someone else, or overheard a conversation. The reverse is also true.
That is why it is important to remember that once our words leave our mouths,
they can travel long distances. This is why we should heed the words the
apostle Paul wrote to Christians in Colossae:
“Let your conversation be always full
of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians
4:6).
Paul is aware that Christians there have
lots of opportunity to speak with outsiders. He instructs them to speak in a way
that would encourage non-Christians and Christians alike. In context, Paul
places encouraging speech in the same category as prayer, thankfulness,
teaching the good news of Jesus, and being wise in conduct. The same is true
for us today. Have a great week!