by Barrett Vanlandingham
February 9, 2020
February 9, 2020
For many generations, people have misunderstood what it means
to love and be loved the way God intended. It was an issue even in the first
century, and the apostle Paul quite a lot on this topic. Last week, we looked
at the fact that it does no good to portray any of the other good qualities God
wants us to live out in our lives such as faith, joy, kindness, and
self-control if we do not have love. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, Paul goes further
in explaining what love should and should not look like.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it
does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not
self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does
not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always
trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love
never fails.”
The day will come when we no longer need faith or hope
because we will be in the presence of God! Being in God’s presence is also the reason love
will always be there, because God is love. Thankfully, we do not have to wait
until we get to heaven to experience the joys made possible because of love.
Taking a closer look at the above passage, Paul is saying
we can demonstrate the kind of love God expects from us by seeking one another’s
highest good instead of being self-seeking. When Paul speaks of not being
easily angered, he may be thinking back to his earlier days when he thought he
was in the right by persecuting Christians. Imagine how thankful he was as time
passed and the same Christians who lived in fear of Paul now welcomed him and
chose to forget Paul’s wrongs. He knows how good it feels to experience love in
that way, and he wants this attitude of forgiveness to prevail everywhere.
Paul’s letter also contrasts love and deception when he
says love rejoices with the truth. Satan, the father of lies (John 8:44), often
sets traps meant to confuse people about the true meaning of love. But God’s truth
stands firm and gives His children something to rejoice in! It is God’s LOVE and the fact that we can
place our hope and trust in it. We can be assured that God has been pursuing us
for a very long time. But we can only experience His love to the fullest by
submitting to the truths found in His word. In this way, we will not only know
God’s love, but we will also show God’s love to others. Have a great week!