by Barrett Vanlandingham
May 9, 2021
Hello from Fort Gibson, Oklahoma! In just a few days, 2021 high school
graduations will be taking place all across the nation, marking the very first major
crossroads for those walking the stage. So many decisions to make. So many
directions to consider.
It is of greatest importance that young Christian
graduates understand their lives will go much smoother if the spiritual journey
comes first, because when God is at the top, everything else falls into place the
way it should. The option of just bringing Jesus along for the ride when it’s
convenient has never worked well for anyone.
This is true when it comes to every single decision we
make: career, hobbies, relationships. Solomon was the wisest man who ever
lived. As a young king, he asked God for the ability to discern right from
wrong. God was so impressed that young Solomon’s request was not for wealth or power,
He gave him all of that. His wisdom was so evident, that the people knew it had
come from God (1 Kings 3:28).
The
books of Proverbs and Ecclesiastes are both great places to start if you’re
looking for examples of Solomon’s wisdom and advice on which way to turn at
life’s crossroads. Proverbs was actually written for the benefit of young
people to make better decisions, practical tips for living. Ecclesiastes was
written to teach readers the importance of respecting God and keeping His
commands instead of chasing after worldly things while leaving God out of the
picture.
Solomon
said: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from
it. Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your
lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before
you. Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all
your ways. Do not turn to the right or the left; keep your foot from
evil.” (Proverbs 4:23-27).
There
are so many evil forces at work, competing for our children’s hearts to
distract them from the One who loves them most of all. Everywhere they turn,
our children are fed lies that glamorize sinful language, sinful lifestyles,
and goals that lead to sinful outcomes. Solomon warns against all of this, and against
successes that are not sinful, but can damage our relationship with God or cause
someone else to stumble.
“Yet
when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything
was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun” (Ecclesiastes
2:11).
Wouldn’t
it be nice if we could all just learn from the lessons of Solomon and avoid the
consequences that come with bad decision-making? The problem is that we are
human and we usually feel the need to try things out for ourselves. That seems
to be especially true for young people. We’ve all been there. So please join me
in prayer for our graduating seniors, that they would seek wisdom from God to
make righteous decisions as they set out on their own. Have a great week!