by Barrett Vanlandingham
June 20, 2021
In today’s article, I want to explore a few of different
levels of what it means to be a hypocrite, a form of lying.
I
remember when our kids were little and someone would drive past us in a
souped-up car that cost way too much. From all appearances, life could not be
any sweeter! The conversation would always be something like “Wow dad, what a
neat looking car!” Then I would say,
“True, but I would not want to have their debt.” Eventually, the kids could
finish my sentence and then we would have a talk about the debt, stress, relationship
problems, and insecurities that are hiding behind those expensive purchases.
“Putting
on airs” is the term for when someone is pretending to be superior to others,
looking down their nose at others, or acting snobby, especially when behind the
scenes their life is an absolute wreck. Anyone who spends much time on social
media is well acquainted with hypocrisy and all the blow hards who try to make themselves
look so smart, or their lives seem so grand or perfect. The fact is, nobody is
better than anyone else. We all have our issues to deal with.
We’ve probably all said or done something that made us
look better than we deserved. Sometimes
we get lucky and it just happens by accident. Other times, we say or do something
out of convenience such as throwing everything in the closet before company
arrives to make a room look less cluttered than it normally is. I may have done
that more than a few times. But I think the worse version of hypocrisy is the
practice of expecting or demanding high standards of others when secretly we
don’t even make an attempt at reaching those standards.
Jesus
condemned the practice of hypocrisy. His words were especially harsh towards
those who were considered to be the religious elite of the community. They
pretended to have it all together, and even worse, they pretended to be more
important than everyone else around them. They acted like it, spoke like it,
and dressed like it.
Matthew
devotes an entire chapter to Jesus’ warnings against hypocrisy. “Do not do
what they do, for they do not practice what they preach… Everything they
do is done for people to see… They love the place of honor… They love to be
greeted with respect” (Matthew 23:3-7).
Jesus
condemned the lifestyles of hypocrites who are full of greed, self-indulgence, and
wickedness even as they portray themselves outwardly as clean and pure. Jesus
compared them to “whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but
on the inside are full of dead men’s bones.”
In
Numbers 20:9-12, Moses disobeyed God by striking a rock to get water out of it
for the thirsty grumbling crowd of Israelites he and Aaron were leading. Moses
was supposed to have spoken to the rock as God instructed. But God allowed
water to pour out of the rock anyway, and Moses and Aaron no doubt came across looking
like superstar saviors, especially when they did not give God the credit as
they should have. This act of disobedience to God and hypocrisy resulted in
neither Moses nor Aaron being allowed to lead the people into the promised
land. Moses expected the Israelites to be obedient to God even though he had
just committed an act of disobedience.
May we
all strive to live Godly lives both in public and private, and use all of our
blessings and talents for His glory, not ours. Have a great week!