There are reasons why God doesn’t always give us what we ask for
by Barrett Vanlandingham
June 28, 2011
The other night I found myself watching a new show called “Toddlers and Tiaras.” The show was basically following two little girls through a beauty pageant. If you appreciate a good show to roll your eyes at, just tune in to some of this show’s behind the scenes temper tantrums, back-talking, and on-stage pint-size modeling followed by uncontrollable crying when the contestants find out they didn’t win it all. As the judges were tallying their scores, one very dramatic six year old shut her eyes in full concentration as she said, “Please God, Please God, Please God!” Well, she did win second overall, but not the grand prize which was a double-size pink poster bed. When she finally figured out she hadn’t won the top spot, she threw a queen-size FIT.
At some point in our lives, we all find ourselves not knowing what to pray for, or we know what we want but we don’t know if we’re supposed to ask for wants. Sometimes we simply get discouraged with our prayer life because we ask over and over for something that just doesn’t seem “meant to be.”
Each one of the following Bible passages could be an article on its own. But I encourage you to go ahead and look-up these verses which shed light on why we don’t always feel like God answers our prayers, at least the way we wanted.
1. We don’t believe that God can answer prayer. (James 1:6-8 & Matthew 21:22)
2. Wrong motives. (James 4:3)
3. Unconfessed sin separates us from God, so that He cannot hear. (Isaiah 59:1-2).
4. We set up idols in our hearts that come between us and God. (Ezekiel 14:3).
5. We don't answer those who cry to us for help. (Proverbs 21:13).
6. We don't remain in God and his word is not in us. (John 15:7).
Beyond these reasons, God’s wisdom is simply greater than ours. He sees the overall picture of what we need. Just like a parent gives a child what is needed, God knows what’s best for us. Having said that, we must remember we live in a broken world. Even in 2011, we are still dealing with the consequences of Adam and Eve’s sin that happened in the Garden of Eden shortly after creation some 6000 years ago. The silver lining is that for Christians, life on earth is just the beginning of our relationship with God. May God bless your week with plenty to be thankful for as we await that final day and the promised reward.
by Barrett Vanlandingham
June 28, 2011
The other night I found myself watching a new show called “Toddlers and Tiaras.” The show was basically following two little girls through a beauty pageant. If you appreciate a good show to roll your eyes at, just tune in to some of this show’s behind the scenes temper tantrums, back-talking, and on-stage pint-size modeling followed by uncontrollable crying when the contestants find out they didn’t win it all. As the judges were tallying their scores, one very dramatic six year old shut her eyes in full concentration as she said, “Please God, Please God, Please God!” Well, she did win second overall, but not the grand prize which was a double-size pink poster bed. When she finally figured out she hadn’t won the top spot, she threw a queen-size FIT.
At some point in our lives, we all find ourselves not knowing what to pray for, or we know what we want but we don’t know if we’re supposed to ask for wants. Sometimes we simply get discouraged with our prayer life because we ask over and over for something that just doesn’t seem “meant to be.”
Each one of the following Bible passages could be an article on its own. But I encourage you to go ahead and look-up these verses which shed light on why we don’t always feel like God answers our prayers, at least the way we wanted.
1. We don’t believe that God can answer prayer. (James 1:6-8 & Matthew 21:22)
2. Wrong motives. (James 4:3)
3. Unconfessed sin separates us from God, so that He cannot hear. (Isaiah 59:1-2).
4. We set up idols in our hearts that come between us and God. (Ezekiel 14:3).
5. We don't answer those who cry to us for help. (Proverbs 21:13).
6. We don't remain in God and his word is not in us. (John 15:7).
Beyond these reasons, God’s wisdom is simply greater than ours. He sees the overall picture of what we need. Just like a parent gives a child what is needed, God knows what’s best for us. Having said that, we must remember we live in a broken world. Even in 2011, we are still dealing with the consequences of Adam and Eve’s sin that happened in the Garden of Eden shortly after creation some 6000 years ago. The silver lining is that for Christians, life on earth is just the beginning of our relationship with God. May God bless your week with plenty to be thankful for as we await that final day and the promised reward.
