by
Barrett Vanlandingham
July
12, 2016
When I was much younger, long before
I became a full-time youth minister, I sometimes wondered if the preachers’
families ever had conflict or spiritual struggles of any kind. But after years
of being close friends with our preacher’s kids, I soon figured out that even
the preacher’s family had to deal with the same issues as everyone else. As an adult now in my 15th year of
full-time ministry, I know these things first hand. Simply put, raising a
family (no matter what you do for a living), isn’t always easy.
This week, I am continuing my series
on things we as Christians need to re-charge in our lives. In particular, the
respect of God, others, and self.
In the Old Testament, we read about
Eli the priest, and how he raised a young boy named Samuel at the request of
the boy’s parents. He evidently did a great job with Samuel, but the same could
not be said for how Eli raised his own sons, Hophni and Phinehas. The Bible
says they were scoundrels and had no regard for the Lord (1 Samuel 2:12).
Specifically, Eli’s sons stole the best portions of sacrificial meat before it
had been offered to the Lord. They also slept with women who were stationed just
outside of the worship place known as the Tent
of Meeting.
Eli rebuked his sons for their sins,
but they would not listen. This same
chapter provides a pretty good clue as to why his sons may not have respected
their dad’s warning. A prophet of God approached Eli and said,
“Why then do you scorn my sacrifices
and my offerings that I commanded for my dwelling, and honor your sons above me
by fattening yourselves on the choicest parts of every offering of my people
Israel (1 Samuel 2:29)?”
Evidently, Eli knew all along that
his sons were disrespecting God by their bad choices. So, even though Eli
called them down for their sinful ways, they did not respect a dad who they
knew was turning a blind eye to their actions that greatly disrespected the
Lord. God punished Eli’s entire family by cutting their lives short in the “prime
of life.” Hophni and Phinehas died in battle on the same day.
I am not going to sit here 3000
years later and accuse Eli the priest of being a bad parent or person or
anything like that. But this passage is a wakeup call that even though the
daily stresses of life can beat us down, we still need to be careful to not
become lax in our love for God, and modeling that love by our obedience to Him,
and encouraging our children to do the same.
“And you shall love the Lord your
God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with
all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as
yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these (Mark 12:30-31).”
God’s love is amazing, and He continues to
earn our respect every minute of every day. Have a great week!